This is a good message in this post!
Plus we should all support each other's blogs every now and then .... hehe Some have done for me so I will return the favor finally :)

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Posted: Today 3:39 AM
And so this is Christmas. And what have you done? Another year over. A new one just begun.....John Lennon. What have you done? What didn't you do and wish you had. What would you do over or different if given the chance? Today is a good day to look deep, deep within your self. Do not define "you" by the opinions of others. Do not let their words tell you who you are or how to think. Look into your soul and see what you see. Is is bright or dark...daylight or night....or a combination of both shadow and light? YOU, ME, WE all must start today to be who we really are. Act, don't react. Think, don't blink away tears and hide behind the mask. Step out...step up. Be the better person. Hug someone when they don't expect it. Tell someone how much you really care about them. Admit you're sorry. Don't ever think....I can change this tomorrow. Because too often, too soon, tomorrow doesn't show up and you're left wishing if only....if only....if only....if only...if only...if only...
It's too late....too soon.

THE TONGUE CAN BE YOUR WORST ENEMY!

THE TONGUE CAN BE YOUR WORST ENEMY!

Your words, your dreams, and your thoughts have power to create conditions in your life.
What you speak about, you can bring about.

If you keep saying you can't stand your job, you might lose your job.
If you keep saying you can't stand your body, your body can become sick.
If you keep saying you can't stand your car, your car could be stolen or just stop operating.
If you keep saying you're broke, guess what? You'll always be broke.
If you keep saying you can't trust a man or trust a woman, you will always find someone in your life
To hurt and betray you.
If you keep saying you can't find a job, you will remain unemployed.
If you keep saying you can't find someone to love you or believe in you, your very thought will attract more experiences to confirm your beliefs.
If you keep talking about a divorce or break up in a relationship, then you might end up with it.

Turn your thoughts and conversations around to be more positive and power packed with fait h, hope, love and action.
Don't be afraid to believe that you can have what you want and deserve.

Watch your Thoughts, they become words.
Watch your Words, they become actions.
Watch your Actions, they become habits.
Watch your Habits, they become character.
Watch your Character, for it becomes your Destiny.


The minute you settle for less than you deserve, you get even less than you settle for.
Thought I would share this with you.

In the search for Me, I discovered Truth.
In the search for Truth, I discovered Love.
In the search for Love, I discovered GOD.
And in God, I have found Everything.

Be Blessed

Watch how your circumstances and situations begin to change when you change the way you speak

To Give and Receive

Whatever you give a woman, she will make greater.

If you give her sperm, she'll give you a baby.

If you give her a house, she'll give you a home.

If you give her groceries, she'll give you a meal.

If you give her a smile, she'll give you her heart.

She multiplies and enlarges what is given to her.

So, if you give her any crap, be ready to receive a ton of shit.

Just in case you can't read the text above:

A father asked his 10-year old son if he knew about the birds and the bees.

"I don't want to know," the child said, bursting into tears. "Promise me you won't tell me."
Confused, the father asked what was wrong.

The boy sobbed,
"When I was six, I got the 'There's no Easter Bunny' speech.
At seven, I got the 'There's no Tooth Fairy' speech.
When I was eight, you hit me with the 'There's no Santa' speech.
If you're going to tell me that grown-ups don't really get laid, I'll have nothing left to live for!!"