This is a good message in this post!
Plus we should all support each other's blogs every now and then .... hehe Some have done for me so I will return the favor finally :)

http://www.americanidol.com/myidol/blogs/view/?un=grown-upviewer&eid=21043

Posted: Today 3:39 AM
And so this is Christmas. And what have you done? Another year over. A new one just begun.....John Lennon. What have you done? What didn't you do and wish you had. What would you do over or different if given the chance? Today is a good day to look deep, deep within your self. Do not define "you" by the opinions of others. Do not let their words tell you who you are or how to think. Look into your soul and see what you see. Is is bright or dark...daylight or night....or a combination of both shadow and light? YOU, ME, WE all must start today to be who we really are. Act, don't react. Think, don't blink away tears and hide behind the mask. Step out...step up. Be the better person. Hug someone when they don't expect it. Tell someone how much you really care about them. Admit you're sorry. Don't ever think....I can change this tomorrow. Because too often, too soon, tomorrow doesn't show up and you're left wishing if only....if only....if only....if only...if only...if only...
It's too late....too soon.